Psychopath Runs Court, Police From Other Side of the World

PSYCHOPATH RUNS COURT, POLICE, SOLICITOR, GP, LOCAL COUNCIL, AUCTIONEER FROM OTHER SIDE OF WORLD

Penny J Darby-Smith

I sincerely hope this devastating story will alert other victims to the lengths a Psychopath will go to in order to secure the result for the victim of being ‘arrested, sectioned and dead’; the Psychopath mantra. The Hate Crimes are too many to list, but are daily, sometimes hourly.

My Psychopath is my half-sister, who inherited the genes from her father, a charismatic, dangerous man.

This child went on to be a very dangerous person, but blonde, pretty and nearly 6’ tall, she was able to swan through life with impunity; a life full of planned attacks on many people, but mostly focused on my father and me.

My mother got the big smile and false respect to keep her onside. She went on to hasten her mother’s death, within hours of solicitor-firm’s arrival; she recognised the person at the door, as she had been to see the solicitor before announcing her arrival to us. That proves premeditation as she wanted to recognise anyone from the office. Also, she told her mother she had a black outfit and was in a hurry. She physically and emotionally tortured her. She was a foot taller and threw her around until I was able to hide my son and moved over there immediately to save my mother. My mother’s cries for help to Police failed to remove this danger. We were both scared, as is outlined clearly in her solicitor’s notes.

She had also appeared from Australia in 2001 to drop the bombshell that she had been abused from ages 5 – 20 but had forgotten! She said she remembered when she read an article about someone who sued a dead person for abuse. We lived in a small home and played on a smallish sailing boat, so any abuse would have been obvious. She was sexually promiscuous early on and would try and upset me with stories of sex; also, her love of watching patients die; trying to upset me with seeing the lights go out in their eyes. I was a sensitive child and would run off crying – a buzz for any Psychopath.

Sadly, in Antipodes, it was big business claiming damages from a dead person’s estate. In UK that did not apply, but she tried to sue her own mother for damages and money to keep it secret.

My mother banished her and her family forever and sent her packing; far from keeping quiet, she told everyone about it and all agreed her daughter had gone rogue. From my perspective, as I sat there listening to the vile sex stories, I knew it was just her sex-addiction talking. She had always loved talking sex to shock people and feed off their reactions. It continues to this day. She knew that we knew it was all lies (even decades out and wrong houses etc.!) but her excitement was unstoppable.

The Psychopath returned in 03 on hearing her mother was ill. I am very keen on Complementary Medicine, at the top level, and it had saved my own life, and we had also got my mother through serious illness and so we knew we could get her through this illness. (I have proof of her cure with medical notes from her oncologist) and upon the arrival of the banished daughter, my mother called the Police in desperation. They were no use at all and fell for the lies. Not for the first time. A relative of mine was stabbed to death on his doorstep, in front of his brother, who were running from a gang, run by Psychopathic leader; son of a senior Police Officer! This could raise the family numbers to a massive 4, thanks to the ignorance of those who presume and assume others to potential death. So this family has not fared well at the hands of the Police, at all.

I am writing a course for the Police, but doubt they will take it up. One such tip is to seat people on both sides of a suspected Psychopath, easy, but effective, as they lose the smiling expression immediately, and turn to ‘reset’. If you remove that, it leaves them in some confusion. Believe me, a lifetime of unwillingly being a student of Behavioural Sciences, there are many clues. I could hide before walk; a flick of the hair, a steely, laser-like stare would terrify me as a child. Even MIND is unable to help victims; I was advised to get a solicitor!

When I married and honeymooned in NZ, she had an affair with my husband. My father and I caught them, and she was hoping I would shout, scream, yell and cause a furore. I never mentioned it, came home and divorced. I never told my mother, ever. Dad and I just kept quiet for ‘peace’; that will bring anything but peace. Just another attempt to be, do, have my life, to destroy at will.

Short story, Mother dead within couple of hours of solicitor trying to get new Will signed, turning up at the house. I have the handwritten notes. The doctor refused me blood tests and post mortem. He was scared of her and under her control entirely. Her death was unexpected; we had plans for the following week. Even solicitor was planning a visit the following week, but the one who visited was keen to get it done and had arranged it with me, with neighbours at the ready as Witnesses, keen to help my lovely mum. It was not urgent and says a lot. I have the new Will and the notes for the instruction which proves her intention. Her mantra was ‘she will collect nothing’ and she kept repeating it. It was heart-breaking.

Within minutes of her death, the Psychopath was stretched out on the sofa on her mobile phone, saying ‘got the money’ and laughing. Her husband manifested out of nowhere to shut her up and bully solicitors and doctors. She forgot it was a bungalow and I was just yards away.

My mother died in fear, pain, anger and distress. This was amplified by the fact she knew my son and I would be next.

My attacker is the other side of the world, and this is the key part for anyone thinking distance is a saving grace.

I have been drugged twice, ignored. First time by own nephew (son of Psychopath) who told me he had drugged me to get truth about alleged abuse. My book was all over the internet and they thought maybe money. I had ignored (at my peril, being nice) the ban on the family and agreed to a reunion, with my son too. I was awoken by a maid in the hotel he had booked, at mid-day and he looked surprised to see me. I don’t think I was meant to wake up. He also has the genes, which also include sex/drug/alcohol addiction. That takes money.

His sister seems to be without the gene at this point; kind, loving, great mother, gentle. The psychopath put a wedge between them, lying to them both with separate stories. Ergo, she controls the entire family and their lives. I am sure she was in the hotel, but Police would not check her 4 passports.

My beloved home was attacked just after the false abuse allegations; basement door to garden axed off hinges and lying flat on lawnmower and the security door at top of stairs to living level also axed down. The front door lock was so old it was easy to break in and sash windows with no locks. Any 5-year-old could have got in in under 5 minutes. The Police urged me to move as alone with a child and clearly this was the work of a lunatic. I moved with a Police guard but those notes are missing!

She had always data-collected; had her crew imparting private information about me which then became a hit-list. I was sabotaged through landlords, local council, auctioneer stole my valuable 1750s American Chippendale-style desk, which came from the family of an American Civil War hero’s family directly into my father’s family. It was left to me in both parents’ Wills.

The book I had published was a non-fiction book about a missing ship, and based on the first-hand account by my father’s uncle. That was also stolen, on demand, and now she is claiming it is her book. My publisher dropped me thanks to the lies that I am a deviant; they went on to steal hundreds of copies of the book and are selling them online via agents, and could make between £90,00 and £1.2m. They also put the book out under several variations of my name, so I never get royalties. That is fraud, defamation, corruption, conspiracy plus many more crimes.

I had 2 storage units smashed up. She got in claiming to be me, no cctv and my life’s belongings taken; the second one was less, of course, and everything smashed up.

The social housing landlord admitted hacking my mobile, and indeed, all texts, contacts, etc. were lost. My laptop was hacked and I lost all AOL accounts, which lost me client details, testimonials, book on mind/body connection and so much more.

All attempts to resurrect, including being offered a Harley Street position, are sabotaged and it is impossible to recover and raise profile without risking other people.

The City Council created a £2,000 debt, which I produced receipts for; then it went to £4,000 and then to £6,000 and threat of prison. That has been dealt with but the stress involved is massive.

I went to my GP to log that I was in stress, and she falsely claimed it was my appendix surgery, which I have never had and on my demand for my notes, I was sent fake notes. I have the notes and letter of apology as proof. She also joined the social housing landlord in trying to get a ‘SUICIDE’ danger alert with mental team. I have never been depressed, and would never consider such a choice. It opened the door to an accident. I have letter from mental team confirming I am no danger to society or self.

The list goes on, but I have been threatened in public and a solicitor said he had £17,00+ of stocks of mine, stolen by a solicitor in the firm in 95 and he had died so they wanted to know what to do with them. They said I could not have the money and it was all entrapment and to distress. That violates Human Rights, several Articles, and they involved public (including an ex-landlord) in this farce, and this translates as false information from Psychopath being public gossip (slander/libel/disadvantage/malicious intent/fraud/conspiracy/corruption, etc., etc.) and leaves us vulnerable as it only takes one over-enthusiastic person to take matters into their own hands, for the safety of society.

We are the most benign, gentle, kind, empathetic, intelligent, people and our lives have already been taken in terms of quality. I am also a freelance, qualified, Coach and whilst drawn to Victim Coaching, do not yet consider myself a survivor; this is more a documentary of my demise.

The only thing I did right, on recently finding David Master’s site, is to document, document, document, driving the Police and everyone crazy as they find me now a figure of lunacy and also of comedy. Even the Court Staff when I was facing false debts from landlord, and fighting auctioneer, lost papers, altered Court Orders, withheld Witness Statements and openly laughed at my distress.

So, please be aware, if sudden debts appear or hacking etc. be sure to log it all and report it all, and KEEP IT ALL safely. Distance is no object to a Psychopath, and the Police actually are in the Cluster group, or, as I called it before finding this site, Vigilante Group.

I hold Police, the Psychopath’s Psychiatrist, landlord, auctioneer, solicitor, council and court staff, GP, all guilty should anything ever happen to my son and/or me. They have committed over 50 crimes which have gone un-investigated. It is a true horror story and it continues unabated with the corrupt solicitor trying to criminalise me. They are hiding their crimes behind me and now I step aside and let the light shine on them. The auctioneer was actually found ‘guilty’ in a Court for selling fake items, so crimes are a-plenty.

It is also interesting that the top careers for Psychopaths include medics (Psychopath and GP); Police; solicitor; sales (auctioneer); civil servants (Court staff, council staff, landlord staff). How well she picked her Cluster. Little do they know they are not thinking for themselves; their minds and actions belong to a Psychopath.

©PDS

Different Kinds of Psychopaths

Just as there are all kinds of individuals, no two predatory psychopaths are the same, and some of them have specializations. They subscribe to a certain type of victimization which they have found works very well for them. While their crimes against others may vary, they will often share similar characteristics. Some examples are:

  • abusive psychopath
  • animal abuse psychopath
  • child abuse psychopath
  • con artist psychopath
  • controlling psychopath
  • criminal psychopath
  • educational psychopath
  • elder psychopath
  • embezzler psychopath
  • exploitative psychopath
  • financial psychopath
  • illicit substance psychopath
  • imposter psychopath
  • intimidation psychopath
  • leadership psychopath
  • lover psychopath
  • manipulative psychopath
  • masquerading psychopath
  • military psychopath
  • pathological liar psychopath
  • political psychopath
  • religious psychopath
  • romantic psychopath
  • serial killer psychopath
  • sexual psychopath
  • storyteller psychopath
  • thief psychopath
  • verbally abusive psychopa9th
  • violent psychopath
  • vulnerability psychopath

Interestingly in the State of Washington, where I reside, thanks to Richard and other predatory victimizers, there is a new State extension of law enforcement which focuses on the protection of vulnerable adults.

Predatory psychopaths are always on the lookout for fresh meat, so to speak, and elder adults who are not as sharp as they once were make excellent and easy prey. And, if they’re anything like Richard W Bennett, they will clean you out of everything you have, if given the chance.

Internet Weapons for Psychopaths

There is growing concern around the world about how predatory psychopaths use technology to run con games, manipulate and control people, and exert their revenge on their squirming victims. It is an issue that is very present in the minds of law enforcement and even at this advanced stage is still hard to get a handle on.

And it’s not just the psychopaths using these new technologies, it’s all kinds of predators, criminals, mentally unstable, and even pedophiles are using emerging technologies and social media to recruit, groom, and exploit their victims.

Catch Me If You Can

Have you ever seen the film, “Catch Me If You Can,” with Leonardo Di Caprio and Tom Hanks? I have been asked so many times if this film was about conman Richard W Bennett and Detective James Clarkson. While it is not the case, at all, many see the similarities between Di Caprio’s character, Frank Abagnale, and Bennett’s real-life exploits.

I haven’t said two words about him in public until now. I’ve never mentioned him.

Richard W Bennett

This is the guy that opened my eyes to the reality of psychopathy. I testified against him in a trial that led to his incarceration for elder abuse.

There was a vulnerable adult in our community who had been a newspaper carrier his whole life. This gentleman was well-known and revered throughout the community and we all gave him a nod of approval anytime we saw him delivering papers or collecting cans.

Even with his mental and emotional challenges, he had amassed a respectable retirement nest egg for himself to live out his elder years, which he was clearly in the midst of in his late-seventies.

Richard W Bennett (his name at the time) befriended this vulnerable adult, becoming his “best friend” and financial consultant, and proceeded to take him for everything he had, leaving him homeless and penniless. While Richard lived in the lap of luxury, buying exotic cars, and illicit drugs, living the high life, spending this sensitive man’s money as fast as he could.

That was when I met Richard, Detective James Clarkson, FBI Agent Joe Lurf, and subsequently testified for the State in the case against Bennett.

At that moment he declared war against me, and swore he would do anything he could, sparing no expense, to destroy me, my family, turning anyone I knew against me, and put me behind bars. His last words to me, made from a phone call from a holding cell at the County Jail, were, “You’re lucky right now, because it’s me inside here instead of you, but your days are numbered.”

I calmly replied, “You are hereby notified, never to contact me again. We are done here.” And I hung up the phone, while I heard him raise his voice and say, “Wait…” (click). I was done, but he had only begun.

He announced his death with the cooperation of his brother, Robert Paul Bennett, on October 12, 2015.

Mom on-the-run

One day I met a lady, a lovely lady, very charming, had three wonderful children. I soon learned this lady was in a destructive situation with the father of her youngest child. She told me all the gory details which I could relate to and believed she was in a situation with a sociopath.

I instantly offered my support because I believed I could help her get out of the situation and rid herself of her sons destructive father. I encouraged her to go to the police and fight for full custody of her son. She did both!

She got an injunction against him and took him to court and he lost his parental rights and in tern lost all access to his son. I ended up for the next 4 years being a father figure to her 3 children. She apparently was always at work or at business meetings.

I began to feel like a single father of 3 children when in reality I was just a friend of their mum. I picked them up from school, made their dinner, did their homework with them, got them tucked up in bed and then she would roll home. This was 5 days a week and then at weekend 2 of the children went to stay with their father and the 3rd came to stay at mine.

She very rarely saw her children and certainly never spent any quality time with them. This lady said she had her own business within social services, employed numerous people and was some property big wig, I had no reason to doubt her!

Super-psychopath-momAfter time the cracks started to appear, things didnt ring true and it became evident that she was lying to me. Basically she prayed on me when I was very vulnerable and undergoing therapy for post traumatic stress disorder after what I’d been through with my health in the hands of a sociopath. She manipulated me on a totally different level and she functioned very different to my ex partner. The last straw was when I got a phone call off a man she claimed not to be sleeping with but was, he asked me if I was well.

Obviously I questioned why would he be interested in my health. He said my so called friend had told him that I was dying from cancer and had used that to manipulate £5000 out of him. She said she wanted to make the time I had left the best time of my life.

I wasnt surprised to hear this because it became evident to me on other occassions that she lied about her own health and others many times to me before. She even told her own elderly parents that she had cancer. There was a point in my so called friendship with her when I told her about my health and she then went on to say she also had HIV, I never believed her!

I wanted to walk away about 2 years ago but felt responsible for the children, however her 2 daughters have now left home and gone to live with their father because of her lies and destructive behaviour, and fortunately for her son shes now manipulated a very kind lady in to living with her so i know for now the child still there with her will be ok.

My only concern is that she’s lied in a family court and lost an innocent man his parental rights and a wonderful little boy his father.

I feel guilty because I supported her in this because I too believed her lies. I feel its only right to expose her to the court, but dont want to make myself vulnerable. For once in my life I had to put myself first. I just hope she doesnt cause me any trouble now I’ve walked away and cut all ties.

Would really appreciate peoples thoughts.

This story was submitted by a psychopath victim. – Admin

Blood Drawn, STDs – Why Me?

Why me!!! It appears that i’m a magnet to sociopaths to the degree I have lost all trust in people and spend the majority of my time alone.

I have really suffered at the hands of these evil creatures. Not only mental abuse but my health is also in tatters. In 2005 I met a charming man who worked within the care industry, he was in the choir and appeared to be held in high regard within society.

I’m not afraid to take responsibility for making bad choices but it became evident that i was manipulated in to making those choices. A sexual relationship with this man soon developed and based on his believable reasons no protection was used.

Four months into the relationship I fell really ill and ended up in hospital. Many tests were run and it was discovered that I had throat cancer. I was devastated but got no support whatsoever from my partner, not even a visit in hospital. Whilst having to come to terms with being diagnosed with cancer my doctor informed me that the tests also showed serious inflammation of my liver.

Beware-psychopath-gifts-hiv-syphilis-hepatitis-b-std-psychopath-victimsThey questioned how much alcohol I drank but I dont drink so that was out the question. Up on reflection I asked the doctor to give me a full sexual health screen to rule hepatitis out. When the results came back I went in to shock, I was HIV positive, had Hepatitis B and to top it all I had syphilis. I truly believed my life was over. It all started to make sense why my partner wouldnt visit me in hospital.

After a couple of weeks in hospital I was eventually allowed home to continue treatment as an outpatient. My partner was there to greet me, he said not to worry he still wanted me even if no one else would, under the circumstances I felt grateful. Both my parents have sadly passed and I have one sister of whom ive never had a close relationship with, and I didnt feel able to reach out for support from my friends due to the stigma attached to HIV so kept them at arms length and intern felt very isolated.

Over the next few months things went from bad to worse, I wasnt working because of my health and intern I had a lot of time to reflect.

To cut a long story short it became evident the man who claimed to love me had intentionally infected me with his infections and when I threatened to go to the police he attacked me with a knife, fortunately I only suffered minor injuries. I ran out the house and telephoned the police. When the police arrived I was outside in total fear of my life. They went in the house only to find him covered in blood! He’d cut himself with the knife a said I’d attacked him.

They arrested us both and I spent the night in prison. I was released in the morning pending further inquiries, he was released later on that day and manipulated his way straight back in to my home. I was desperate for the police to help me but was left feeling like a bunny boiler, I felt more isolated than ever!!

Why couldnt they see through his charm?!

I was under the power of a sociopath, had no support, my health was in the gutter and I was at a point were I could quite easily have given up. By this time i’d done my homework and ended up learning all about his destructive behaviour and what he was, a sociopath!

I’m not a doctor so couldnt go to the police and say my partner is a sociopath, help me I’m trapped. So i had to learn to play the game and get him out of my life.

After being told on a daily basis I was suicidal and that if I went to the police he would get to me before they got to him and I would be found in a pool of blood he left me. I thought that I’d won the battle to get my life back but then the death threats started. Emails saying ‘hit and run soon’ etc. I was more vulnerable than ever but at least by this time the police started to listen.

The police went to arrest him but couldnt trace him, he’d gone on the run! He left his home, car, job and family and hasnt been seen since. The police insisted I move house for my own safety, which I did. They installed panic buttons in my home and various other gadgets for my protection. Fortunately the death threats have since subsided but that doesnt mean that one day he wont raise his vile head again. This sociopath cost me My health, my life savings, my home and friends = my life. I can only hope and pray he doesnt come back and find me.

A year later in 2008 my health was under control, the cancer treatment had gone amazingly well, the syphilis treatment was 100% successful and I’d gone on meds and my HIV had become undetectable, however I still had Hepatitis B and the doctors said it was now unlikely I would clear it. I was just grateful to have my life back.

This story was submitted by a psychopath victim. – Admin

How to Deal with a Psychopath Video

Hello, my name is David Masters and I’m the author of the Psychopath Victims Toolkit.

A little about me, I’ve been counseling and consulting since the late seventies/early eighties. Occasionally, in the course of my coaching, I would encounter a client that had to mitigate the damages in their life due to the influence of a third-party individual, a “bad person.”

how-to-deal-with-a-psychopath-videoFrom my perspective, there were no such thing as bad people, just lost souls wandering aimlessly through life with little regard for others; and so, the advice that I gave to individuals in those days was very different than I might suggest now.

What I learned, was that there are people who are devoid of particular mental, emotional and spiritual components that compromises their humanity when integrating with other persons, we call these people psychopaths, sociopaths and the recent, more political correctly referred to as being on the Antisocial Personality Disorder spectrum.

That said, there are thousands of variables and no two psychopaths are identical, but they do share many similar characteristics.

So, how can you tell if you’re dealing with a psychopath? Here are some common signs that would indicate that you might be dealing with a psychopath in your life:

Is-he-or-she-a-psychopath-6-item-checklist1. CHARISMATIC

Psychopaths are charismatic and are able to attract supporters easily.

They are wonderful speakers who are able to engage their audience and can easily engage the emotions and attention of those fortunate enough to be in their presence.

They exaggerate stories skewing the truth for their self-serving benefit, and will go as far as to lie and place themselves in someone else’s story and claiming it is their own.

2. SMART

Psychopaths are intellectual. They have a gift of having incredibly sharp wit and intelligence enabling them to masquerade as highly-educated as they bob and weave socially in live situations.

This also makes them excellent con artists able to conceive, plan and execute elaborate schemes, while staying one step ahead of the authorities.

3. NO FEELINGS

Psychopaths have no feelings. They do not grieve, are incapable of feeling guilt, shame or remorse, empowering them to easily victimize anyone. They will enthusiastically engage in anything that bolsters their position at someone else’s expense.

They do not love. They are incapable of giving or receiving love, but terribly acute at acting as though they are madly in-love, if it will help them achieve a desired result.

They are great actors/performers giving them the ability to create any perception of themselves that will achieve for them their desired result.

Even though they can appear to have emotions and use them as tools to manipulate their victims, let there be no doubt, they have no real feelings whatsoever.

4. IMPULSIVE

Psychopaths are impulsive, often acting or speaking without thinking through potential consequences of their words or actions, and are more likely to spontaneously take risks.

They are free of repercussion, since they see themselves as above the law or the constraints of the social norm. No social filters, consequences or guilt.

5. WINNERS

Psychopaths never lose. They will dominate anyone who gets in their way, will viciously defend their position, often by telling lies and spinning wild tales in an effort to discredit anyone with the inclination to disagree with them.

If you are naïve enough to challenge them, be aware that they will wield their powers of persuasion to make you look like a fool for questioning them. Which presumes that they believe themselves to be:

6. NEVER WRONG

Psychopaths are always right. They never apologize; do not feel remorse for hurting others and are incapable of feeling guilt.

If asked to apologize, a psychopath will often strike out and attack their victim, rather than admit they may have made a mistake or misstep.

Now ask yourself, is the person you’re dealing with a psychopath?

Are they charismatic, smart, have no feelings, impulsive, always the winner and never wrong?

Chances are, you’re face-to-face with a psychopath.

You’re probably saying to yourself, “I knew it. I knew there was something wrong with that person…” You are realizing that you should rely more on your intuition that may have been warning you when you first met this person that something was not quite right. If only we learn to listen more to our gut, we would live happier, safe and secure lives, free from those who seek to exploit us.

If nothing else, that is the lesson to be learned from encountering a psychopath, is to trust your instincts and to not let yourself be taken advantage of by a cunning predator.

I would not, now, be an expert in the field of psychopathy had I not had my own first-hand experience with an evil psychopath that opened my eyes to the realities of the disorder. And now I have deep regret for all the folks that I was ill-equipped to be compassionate enough to reach out to them appropriately.

In this way, I may have attracted this psychopathic presence in my own life to benefit those whom it is my calling to assist along their life’s journey.

So, we’ve established that you have found yourself to be the unfortunate victim – or mark – of a psychopath, sociopath or someone amidst the antisocial personality disorder spectrum…

What Can You Do About It?

How to Deal With a Psychopath

How-to-deal-with-a-psychopath-6-item-checklist1. NO CONTACT

The very first thing to do is to crate as much separation as you can as soon as possible between yourself and the psychopath.

You need to distance yourself physically, financially, emotionally, spiritually and in any other way possible from the psychopath and cease any and all communication with him or her, period.

Any further communication or contact after correctly identifying a psychopath will only lead to more risk, or potential loss to you and yours.

Be aware that as you distance yourself, the psychopath will try to cling to you or play on your emotions in order to further victimize you. Do not fall for their manipulation or pity ploys from this point forward. They will try to appeal to your feeling but keep in mind they have no feelings and no regard for yours, except as a method to further victimize you.

You must cut them off. No contact, means no contact. Though this may not be possible, if you work or live with the psychopath; but that will be an issue to be handled specifically and independently of the scope of this primary message.

2. GET HELP

Next, you will need a strong support system. You should seek out a professional, a counselor or therapist, with experience in dealing with psychopaths. Note that early in my practice, even though individuals sought me out for assistance, I was ill-equipped to offer them the support that they needed at the time.

How can someone understand what you are going through, if they do not understand what you are going through… because – and I am as guilty of this as anyone – “things can’t really be all that bad.” But they are, and they can be very bad, and they can get worse if you do not take the appropriate actions.

Seek out a specialist, or at least someone with experience dealing with victims of psychopaths.

3. BE QUIET

Do not talk to your friends about the psychopath. You might think this is a good time to reach out to those in your circle of friends that you can depend on for support, but chances are (if the psychopath has done his or her homework) they have already gotten to them in advance.

If your friends have not been compromised by the psychopath, there is a good chance that they will be, and be forewarned very few people can compete with the ability to manipulate the minds of the unsuspecting, like the psychopath.

Keep things quiet. Do not confront your psychopath, engage in a battle of wits, challenge or attempt an intervention with your psychopath. This will only open you up for further potential pain, suffering and potential loss.

They psychopath has the uncanny ability to turn anything that you say against you. Don’t give them the opportunity.

4. STAY STRONG

Stay the course. If the psychopath has counter-attacks you, don’t respond.

If you communicate anything to this person it should only be silence. Be steadfast and unshakeable, solid as a rock.

He or she must realize that you cannot be manipulated or be bullied into making any kind of response, no matter what they do or say.

Keep a good posture, positive outlook, smile and be confident (even if you don’t feel like it) at all times.

Any indication of weakness will be seen as an opportunity either to insert themselves or launch another attack.

5. DOCUMENTATION

how-to-deal-with-a-psychopath-sociopath-david-m-mastersDocument everything. Keep hard copies of everything you can to document any interaction or statements made by your psychopath and keep it at a secure location.

Watch what you say. Act as if every word you speak is being recorded, and may be read to a jury in the future word-for-word and spun out of context in an effort to make you look like a lunatic.

Maybe someday the people who once trusted you will see the truth, but even so, if your psychopath was a masterful one, they will still wonder about you, even after the true colors of the psychopath are made known.

So, don’t hold onto the false hope of one day being vilified of all the illicit accusations that were made against you. In most cases the effects are permanent, though may fade over time. Maybe, in the afterlife…

6. FORGIVE YOURSELF

Most of all, forgive yourself. You were not the perpetrator, here, you were the victim. And as a victim you may have found yourself in vulnerable or compromising situations, and you may feel like the fool. But you were not the fool. Anyone could be victimized by the proficient psychopath and it happens every day in all walks of life and levels of society.

You could not have seen this coming… but now that you are aware, you are less likely to become a victim again… and maybe you can help others to see the signs – or at least be aware – that there are evil people out there, the virtual wolves in sheep’s clothing, who seek to destroy the lives of others without remorse.

Thank you for joining me for this message. It is my hope that this information will help to save you and other from further potential pain, suffering or loss at the hands of the psychopath. Pass this information on to others who may be potential victims.

For more information, or to contact me, visit psychopath victims dot com.

Psychopath 7 Item Checklist

It is not uncommon to encounter a sociopath or psychopath at some point in one’s life. In the beginning, it may be one of the greatest experiences in your life, but as time goes on, it will likely be the worst experience in your life. They come in both genders, though most are male. They have been referred to as emotional vampires, sucking the life (emotional and financial resources) out of those that they have influence over.

Is-he-or-she-a-psychopath-7-item-checklistSociopath is the new, more politically correct label for a psychopath, so henceforth when I refer to a “sociopath” know that it is interchangeable with psychopath (psychopath is the old-school reference that I believe is a more accurate label of the condition).

The only defense one has against a sociopath is early detection. So, here’s a checklist of seven items that may give you the head’s up that this “someone” in your life, may not be all that he (or she) appears to be. So, here are seven signs to help you figure out if you might be dealing with a sociopath (hopefully before you’ve suffered damages):

  1. Sociopaths are charismatic and are able to attract supporters easily. They are wonderful speakers who are able to engage their audience who can easily engage the emotions and attention of those fortunate enough to be in their presence. They exaggerate stories skewing the truth for their self-serving benefit, and will go as far as to lie and place themselves in someone else’s story and claiming it is their own.
  2. Sociopaths are intellectual. They have a gift of having incredibly sharp wit and intelligence enabling them to masquerade as highly-educated, bob and weave in live situations. This also makes them excellent con artists able to conceive, plan and execute elaborate schemes, while (mostly) staying one step ahead of the authorities.
  3. Sociopaths are devoid of feelings. They do not grieve, are in capable of feeling guilt, shame or remorse, empowering them to easily victimize anyone. They will enthusiastically engage in anything that bolsters their position at someone else’s expense. They do not love. They are incapable of giving or receiving love, but terribly acute at acting as though they are in the throes of love, if it will help them achieve a desired result. They are great actors/performers with no real feelings whatsoever.
  4. Sociopaths are impulsive, often acting or speaking without thinking through potential consequences of their words or actions, and are more likely to take risks, being free of repercussion, since they see themselves as above the law or the constraints of the social norm.
  5. Sociopaths never lose. They will dominate anyone who gets in their way, will vehemently defend their position, often by telling lies and spinning wild tales in an effort to discredit naysayers.
  6. Sociopaths are never wrong. They never apologize; do not feel remorse for hurting others and are incapable of feeling guilt. If asked to apologize, will often strike out and attack their victim, rather than admit they may have made a mistake or misstep.
  7. Sociopaths believe their own press. Once they have said something, it becomes gospel in their mind; so much so, that they can often believe their own bold-faced lies, even to the point of being able to pass a lie detector test. They keep a long list of secrets, and are not forthcoming about intimate details of their past, unless they are fictitious.

So, what do you do if you discover you’re in the presence of a sociopath?

Simply put as much distance between yourself and them as soon and as safely as possible. Curtail any continued communication with them immediately if not sooner. Be aware that if they have not bled you dry, or achieved their goal in manipulating you; they will do anything in their power to repair their relationship with you, so that they can complete their exploitation of you.

Don’t let them do it. Surround yourself with friends who will help shelter you from further exposure.

Thanks to Damon Marturion for this post.

How Psychopaths View The World

Psychopaths view the world in a very different way than the rest of us. They are attracted to possessions and energy, but they thrill at the idea of manipulating others and draining them of whatever they may have. To them it’s like a game, like stealing candy from a baby, only it’s not a baby, it could be you or someone you know that they launch their predatory attack on. They will stop at nothing. They will romance, con, plagiarize, swindle, embezzle or extort anything their mark might have they think they are more deserving of. They would rather rip you off, even take the very coat off your back, shoes off of your feet or meat off of your bones than work an honest hour in exchange for an hourly wage.

What if you’re one of the many victims of psychopaths? What then? Once they’ve drained you of everything you worked hard for and held precious as the fruits of your labors (including anything you may have had set aside for retirement) they simply target another victim whom they will exploit and suck the life and finances from, as they leave them penniless and left for dead. And the cycle continues as their insatiable thirst for the lifeblood of victims for them is a bottomless pit full of prey waiting impatiently for their chance to be slain by the psychopathic beast. People are nothing more than a means to an end, to satisfy their unquenchable thirst for what they believe is rightly theirs.

The victims will be berated and demeaned so that if anyone were inclined to even think about attending their funeral, they would probably not consider it following the psychopathic encounter that left the victim demoralized and demonized.

Sociopaths have been categorized by research to have neurological abnormalities in the frontal lobe of thе brain and fear conditioning can cause an onset of abnormal chemical reactions in this area or the brain. Other causes have been attributed to abnormal growth (maybe genetic), brain illness, or injury as these can be measured and tracked by positron emission tomography (PET) which visually shows the metabolic activity of neurons inside the brain (Sabbatini, 1998).

Concerning brain function, the amygdalae (two small regions near the base of the brain) have long bееn recognized to have an effect on aggression, sexuality and recklessness. Recently, the amygdala has also bееn shown to affect how people interpret the emotions of other people. Even the smallest defect in the amygdalae may explain a great deal of the characteristics of psychopaths, such as difficulty realating to them emotionally. This may explain why they cannot “see” emotions when they are clearly communicated by other people. People considered to have fully functional healthy brains can easily see the emotional content amidst the communication process, while the psychopath and sociopath may be clueless to any emotional communication.

The psychopath is а master manipulator who knows exactly what makes you tick anԁ knows hоw to exploit and manipulate your feelings.

Actors with prolific modeling skills enable psychopaths to persuade others (especially potential victims) that they are completely normal, with the ability to have a wide range of emotions and can communicate emotionally, though only by rote with very little or no human emotion which one might expect from a healthy human being. The psychopath uses these skills to make people falsely believe that he/she has empathy for his respective victims. Detailed storytelling is one of their primary skills which they use to convince their audience they have been hurt or experienced great injustice, loss, or grief; when the truth is, they make their way through life in an emotional vacuum. They are incapable of actually feeling compassion for others even though they have lied and coerced you into thinking they do possess these standard emotional components.

They have a keen sense and/or radar that can easily find someone who is a nice, caring person, who can help to advance their sociological station, or may have resources that they can easily obtain by gaining one’s trust, only to set them up for their unprecedented manipulation and/or thievery. Taking advantage of vulnerable victims is primarily why they might be labeled by victims, law enforcement as well as the therapeutic community as, “evil” while they are left to try to help put together the pieces of broken victims seeking to make sense of their psychopathic encounter.

Psychopaths are psychopathic liars. According to Hare, Lying, deception and manipulation are the natural talents of psychopaths. If they are caught in a lie and/or challenged they create other fictitious stories or change the details, so that they can make it look as though they are not lying. In many cases, their stories are spun with such detail, that even if you know better, you’d think they were telling the truth. The details may be so detailed, broad, varied, lengthy and skillfully interwoven that anyone would be overwhelmed by trying to unravel all the details, which are inconsistent to say the least. Understandably, any normal person who attempts to decipher the confusion details could easily suffer from exhaustion from trying to decipher and make sense of all of it. They will commonly lie for no apparent reason, as if they couldn’t help themselves from lying, if they could.

The goal of the psychopath’s extravagant storytelling will confound investigators and other audiences and cause them to question the victim as a potential culprit, conspirator or evildoer, so as to deflect to focus from themselves as they project a questionable character upon the victim. They masterfully wield their lies in an effort to discredit their accusers and manipulate anyone who might question their integrity.

In a court of law, when confronted with the facts, like finding their footprint at the scene of the crime, they are likely to respond, saying “That’s not my footprint,” and even though anyone listening to his denial knows he was there and did it, might begin to question whether he if he really was there.

The modus operandi of the psychopath is to deny any factual statements or evidence completely. So compelling is their denial, that even the victim’s inner strength and energy resources get depleted, possibly even to the point of having a nervous breakdown, which plays into the psychopath’s hand quite effectively, as they can now claim the victim is not mentally stable and suffers from delusions.

The psychopath is distracted by his or her reflection in the mirror and places a high degree of importance on his/her appearance as well as a self-centered sense of grandiosity. If anything, their narcissism may be their one weakness, which might be able to be exploited in an effort to allow them enough rope to make a mistake or allow sensitive evidence to be uncovered. They tell so many lies, that it’s hard – even for them – to keep track of it all.

If the psychopath is caught in a lie, they will use their skill of detailed recollection to weave a story based on enough fact they can tell a story so convincing even you would believe it. But details that they do not think may be beneficial for them to use in the future are completely wiped clean from their memory banks.

Predatory psychopaths can come across as very arrogant, but when in the process of grooming a potential victim, they know just what to say and how to present their stories to make you feel empathetic towards them as you assume they are a kind person, who may have suffered an injustice, so you will feel sorry for them and you let your guard down. While they may be able to represent themselves as being kind-hearted, they are not.
“They are very talented at appearing a lot significantly more humble than the average individual, nonetheless are hardly so.” – (Guggenbuhl-Craig)

They are likely to play the part of the defender of the underdog, or to be a victim of some unavoidable scheme or traumatic loss to draw you into their manipulative web of deceit. If the psychopath has a family or has weaseled his/her way into a family, the family are not considered as fellow people, more so these individuals are catalogued by the psychopath and sorted by their value as possessions to be used for their means. This also applies to other relationships outside the family, where to them; people are only valued by their ability to use them for whatever psychopathic scheme(s) they have in mind. Once a person is spent, they are discarded as they no longer possess any further value.

It used to be considered that psychopaths were unable to maintain a long term relationship with a pet, but it is coming to light that they are able to tolerate or even care for an animal IF said animal can offer some value to the psychopath. Mostly pets can be used to convince others that the psychopath is a kind person because he acts as if he cares for his animal. In rare instances, a psychopath can use the animal as something to keep them occupied during periodic downtime. Nonetheless, their pets are just like everyone else: Tools.

No matter how much you feel that your psychopath has endearing qualities or is kind and nice to you, know this is just an act he/she is putting on to set you up for their current scheme. You are simply being conned, just like everyone else.

One of the more apparent signs of psychopathy is concerned with how they easily tell stories recounting their bad or deviant behavior in their past, as if it were no big deal. Regardless of “how unsavory…his apparent comfort with his deviant behavior, the ease with which he discuss(es) breaking each and every rule, (is) consistent with ASP (psychopathy).” – (Dr. Black.)

Psychopaths are greedy and power hungry, seeking to destroy or devour everything in site as they drain the financial resources or life forces from their victims leaving very little behind when they are done with them.

Don’t be fooled by the psychopath who claims to be the savior of the downtrodden or victims of abuse. The truth is, these kinds of people with few resources or are otherwise vulnerable can easily be recruited to assist them in the carrying out of their perverse plans, and may even are being set up to take the fall as a perpetrator of a crime in proxy.

It is commonly accepted that psychopaths are born with the particular brain condition and chemistry which dictates psychopathic behavior, though other schools of thought consider that a series of challenging life circumstances may cause their otherwise normal brain condition to deteriorate as well as its chemistry to change, resulting in a later in life onset of psychopathy.

Psychopaths are also referred to as energy vampires, as they suck the energy out of anything they come in contact with, such as people, possessions or financial resources. And if it looks like someone else might be able to acquire someone or something they believe to be rightfully theirs, they would rather destroy it than let someone else have it.

Common among psychopaths is their having been raised in their youth in less than desirable circumstances. According to Dr. Donald Black, a majority of clinically diagnosed psychopaths were, “overwhelmingly white, blue collar, lower middle class, and married, and most had not graduated from high school.”

In spite of Dr. Black’s research, psychopaths can be found to populate any stage or class in society and even though they are predominantly male, female psychopaths also adorn the landscape of all social class, though admittedly they are few in numbers than their male counterparts.

Three professors, David, Derald, and Stanley Sue, in the Sixth Edition of Abnormal Behavior (circa 2000) cite statistics offered by the American Psychiatric Association that three percent of men suffer from psychopathy compared to one percent of women who are psychopaths (Personality Disorders and Impulse Control Disorders, 238). In regard to their lack of feelings, “antisocials (psychopaths) appear to lack а conscience, feeling small or no empathy for the people whose lives they touch…the antisocial easily resists all regulation, unable to see beyond his self-interest or to adopt standards of appropriate versus wrong.”

Psychopaths maintain a high degree of self entitlement and feel that everyone is indebted to them, and they are likely to take it upon themselves to make sure that everyone loses whatever they have to appease their self-endowed sense of superiority.

All psychopaths are not low class losers and/or social outcasts, many of them are highly intelligent, stealthy, and successful. Upper tier psychopaths may have attained influential and powerful positions in corporations, government and other organizations. Many of them are attractive and use everything they’ve got to carry out their predatory schemes.

How to Spot a Psychopath

Psychopaths are always witty and articulate аnԁ just about at all times “glib.” They can bе “amusing anԁ entertaining conversationalists, ready with а easy anԁ clever comeback, аnd can tell unlikely on the other hand convincing stories…

They can bе extremely powerful іn presenting themѕеlvеѕ nicely аnd arе generally verу likeable and charming. To ѕоme people, then again, thеy appear tоo slick and smooth, tоо of course insincere аnԁ superficial. Astute observers always uncover the impression thаt psychopaths are play-acting, mechanically “reading thеir lines.”

…They could ramble аnԁ tell stories that appear unlikely іn light of whаt іѕ recognized аbout thеm. Typically, they attempt to look familiar wіth sociology, psychiatry, medicine, psychology, philosophy, poetry, literature, art, or law. A signpost tо thіs trait іs consistently a smooth lack оf concern at bеing identified out.”

Despite thеir failures, psychopaths hаve а incredibly “narcissistic аnd grossly inflated view оf their self-worth аnԁ significance, a truly fantastic egocentricity anԁ sense of entitlement, and see thеmѕеlvеs аѕ the center оf thе universe, aѕ better beings whо are justified in living according tо theіr оwn rules.”

They constantly obtain аs “arrogant, shameless braggarts–self-assured, opinionated, domineering, аnd cocky. They enjoy tо havе energy and control more than other people аnԁ seem unable tо believe thаt individuals have valid opinions numerous from theirs. They appear charismatic or ‘electrifying’ to ѕomе people.”

The psychopath іѕ callous, remorseless, anԁ unempathetic, while аt initially glance hе may nоt seem that way. He iѕ consistently exceedingly witty, chameleon-like, charming (still not constantly, especially whеn not in а “effective” mood), the person whо attracts a circle оf admirers about him аt each party, but morе often that nоt, hе is constantly avoided — оncе individuals discover оut whаt he’s truly which include.

Psychopaths often end up associating with others for example themselvеs, even though in ѕоmе cases thеу ԁon’t consistently uncover along thаt properly. Sometimes theу pair uр with other psychopaths anԁ come to be а close team, 1 may well bе а “talker” even though thе оther iѕ а “doer,” anԁ ѕо forth, although thеse roles arе interchangeable whеn dealing wіth a psychopathic duo. As long аѕ theіr interests are complimentary, they create a formidable pair. It hаs as well bеen reported thаt sоmе acquaintances might by no means essentially discover thеir essentially dark side.

Trying to “spot” а psychopath by look iѕ not simple and easy, aѕ thеy always alter thеіr appearance tо look non- threatening, оr tо develop a persona.

The psychopath picks out individuals whо can see thrоugh hіm: A bully’s (sociopath) apparent self-esteem anԁ self-confidence is actually arrogance, аn unsustainable belief of invulnerability honed frоm his willingness to act outside the bounds оf society tо make sure their survival. Targets (or victims) are individuals who can see thrоugh the arrogance tо perceive thе empty shell behind it – аnd bullies can sense whо can see through thеm, furthering thе target’s elimination. This often happens іn the office, аnd in situations wherе thе psychopath has let hіs mask drop.

The question іs, can уou spot 1 bеfore thеу obtain to уou?

Everyone, specially women, ѕhould find out to identify psychopathy аnԁ watch for red flags. This ԁoesn’t mean diagnosing each and every man yоu date, having said that preferably simply getting conscious of the disorder can assist оut a lot!

Another very strong characteristic to look for (or listen for) is what Dr. Hare refers to as “duping delight.” It is as if the psychopath has no need to lie or purpose in lying, the pleasure is attained through merely pulling one over on somebody.

As fоr addictions and ѕо forth, among thе clearest of thеsе links is thе one betweеn psychopathy аnԁ thе abuse of alcohol аnԁ other drugs, though mоst psychopaths wоulԁ in no way admit they hаvе a drinking problem, even when іt’s obvious.

Symptoms of a psychopath:

1. Considerable superficial charm and average or above average intelligence.

2. Absence of delusions and other signs of irrational thinking

3. Absence of anxiety or other “neurotic” symptoms considerable poise, calmness, and verbal facility.

4. Unreliability, disregard for obligations no sense of responsibility, in matters of little and great import.

5.Untruthfulness and insincerity

6. Antisocial behavior which is inadequately motivated and poorly planned, seeming to stem from an inexplicable impulsiveness.

7.Inadequately motivated antisocial behavior

8.Poor judgment and failure to learn from experience

9. Pathological egocentricity. Total self-centeredness incapacity for real love and attachment.

10. General poverty ot deep and lasting emotions.

11. Lack of any true insight, inability to see oneself as others do.

12. Ingratitude for any special considerations, kindness, and trust.

13. Fantastic and objectionable behavior, after drinking and sometimes even when not drinking–vulgarity, rudeness, quick mood shifts, pranks.

14. No history of genuine suicide attempts.

15. An impersonal, trivial, and poorly integrated seX life.

16. Failure to have a life plan and to live in any ordered way, unless it be one promoting self-defeat.

Psychopaths and Relationships

It іs іn this realm thаt the psychopath comes closest to thе psychotic. While seemingly in full possession of hіs reasoning capability, bу аll thе means оf clinical psychology to test аnd assess thеm, thе psychopath demonstrates an inability tо realize thе meaning аnԁ importance оf hіѕ behavior for othеr individuals, anԁ to judge theіr achievable reactions tо hiѕ behavior. He iѕ at all times astounded tо uncover thаt individuals arе upset bу his exploits.

The genuine danger abоut psychopaths іs thаt a couple of girls, in certain, actually hаvе а psychological predisposition towards forming attachments tо thеm. They even fall іn true love with thеm. These ladies, at all times of а hysteric оr histrionic personality, feel empowered whеn attached to the psychopath, regardless of thе truth she has bееn told abоut him, or regardless of whаt hе himself has told hеr. Some оf thеse women hаvе аn underlying fantasy tо think that thеy are іn manage with the psychopathic male.

We’ve heard of the extreme circumstances, such aѕ the ladies who fell in love with thе Night-Stalker, Richard Ramirez, nevertheless іn common, you will obtain psychopaths іn very innocuous places, anԁ thеy normally know hоw tо spot а vulnerable woman whо will feed their self-image of grandiosity. Of course, great looks help іn thеsе matters. The reason so lots of females fell for Ramirez, haѕ been speculated, waѕ quite possibly as well intensified since оf hіѕ brooding, handsome looks аnԁ the fact thаt he coulԁ look vulnerable, “which include а small kid,” said one admirer.

The truth іs, аn attractive psychopath іs almost certainly mоrе hazardous than а less attractive 1, bу аll means.

For a great deal of ladies, thе attachment to a psychopath goes beyond mere Freudian analysis — numerous conveniently deny thе reality, blindly trusting аnd ignoring fact. Some, even when presented wіth the cold hard information, will in spite of this admit that thеу cаnnоt stop loving thеіr psychopathic partner, even аftеr thеy’ve bееn discarded bу hіm. This concern iѕ both а psychosexual 1 (girls wіth personality disorders themѕelveѕ who come to be obsessed wіth psychopaths), or females whо simply will not admit tо thе truth оr arе ignorant аbout thе situation. It can even be a mixture of аll variables.

Regardless, thе psychopath knows whоm to select.

Anyone can bе conned anԁ taken іn bу the psychopath.

Psychopaths select оn anyone, no matter whether wealthy оr poor, intelligent оr not sо bright. Although іt ԁoes appear that the mentally ill arе mоrе susceptible, aѕ well аѕ the elderly, or victims wіth borderline personality disorder.

When needing to manipulate a female, thе psychopath consistently targets females who аre whаt iѕ constantly called the “dumb blonde” kind, thе kind of woman who exudes naivete, continually unconscious of hеr оwn sexuality, vapid innocence, normally nоt tоо bright — theіr personalities often border on the Pollyanish, аnd they continually see а silver lining іn each cloud. Not that thеrе is anything basically wrong wіth innocence оr optimism, still as soon as dealing with a psychopath, that can prove a bad mixture. Psychopaths seem tо be attracted to thіѕ kind оf woman іn specific. She іѕ nurturing and all-giving, whilе hе іs closed-off and retentive.

They hаve an uncanny capacity tо spot аnd use ‘nurturant’ girls — that is, thоѕе who have a productive need to have tо help or mother others.

Psychopaths also for instance to attach to ladies оf greater social status, a woman whо represents what hе wоulԁ like tо bе. Then when hе іѕ finished wіth hеr, he can destroy her аnd kill 2 birds with 1 stone.

However, regardless of what personality kind theу go right after, any individual iѕ still а target.

Like the narcissist, the psychopath hаs an arrogant, disdainful, anԁ patronizing attitude; however, often іn thе 1st stages of charming somebody new, thе true character іs kept hidden, needless to say. That іѕ whу, whеn а woman warns one more woman аbоut а psychopathic man, hіs most recent victim will not be able tо think the bad stories around hіm. “But hе’s sо charming, so kind, ѕo nice…” аnd so forth will bе her reply. Yes. Exactly. He iѕ playing a game wіth уоu tоо.

Psychopaths hаvе a grandiose self-structure whіch requires “a scornful anԁ detached devaluation оf other people” in order tо ward off envy toward the very good perceived in people. They react towards perceived or present attachment capacities with ambivalence аnd consistently aggression. Most оf them transfer the attachment tо “complicated objects” such aѕ weapons, knives, [magical practices] etc. The grandiose self iѕ represented onto thе weapon оr object аnd іѕ а projection of thеmѕеlveѕ. This оf course iѕ mоre in depth investigation of thе psychopath. Not аll psychopaths havе а gun collection оr a favourite knife or sword, then again a outstanding deal оf thеm dо tend tо be fond оf weapons and such symbols оf aggression and dominance.